This morning I went from "I have big plans for this week's posts" to "I'm too tired to blog" to "Oh but look at
last week's snow, and look out my window now". So here you have it, a pan out my window overlooking the tiny triangular yard that since three and a half years back is my everyday world.
A (very annoying) man once asked me: "When you get ill, do you take it like a woman or a man?" Meaning of course, do you bitch and moan (like a man) or bite your lip and suffer silently (like a woman). I answered: "Like a man." To which he replied: "Oh please, take it like a woman."
Me "taking it like a man" is unfortunately true. And why shouldn't I? However, that's not the point. The point is, this question, this lazy way of thinking, this manner of speech, this --- everything about this stupid question vexes me at every turn. This conversation took place about three years ago, and to this day I regret I didn't ask: "How do
you take it?" But I can guess.